Anyone know the best way of downsizing and possibly healing stretched ear lobes?

I started stretching my ears about a year ago, and now I think I'm about ready to give it a rest. I liked the process of waiting and it really helped me with my patience(if you were doing it correctly). But as time has gone by, a lot of people found it to be the newest cool thing to do and I'm over it. As of now they are 5/8" and I took them out about two hours ago to start this reverse process. I did some searching around the net and heard of oils and stuff but I'm not sure which would work the best? I know this isn't a fast process and I'm alright with that. I just want to know whats the best way this will work. Thank you lots! :-)