Did asking for evidence of something anti-gays regularly say make me anti-gay?

I'm always careful to phrase my Q/As so that they aren't easily misinterpreted, but even then some people will still read something else into what I am saying. The way you phrased your Q certainly does not make it sound like you are anti-gay, if anything I thought it had more of a pro-gay connotation. I would just write that person off as being clueless.